Divorce Lies 1 (For Men)

This is not legal advice and was not written by a lawyer.

Usually the first Killer Lie comes from your spouse. Who ever came up with the idea of divorce (87% of the time it is the women) will begin to bleed you dry while you are not looking. Most men find out too late, when everything is long gone. Think you will get it back...think again. Most lawyers say "we'll do what we can...its up to the judge." It is up to the judge but 99% don't care what happened and the 1% who do care won't help you.

In my case $250,000.00 was converted to cash and put in her safe deposit box before I even knew she wanted a divorce. In court she said her lawyer told her to do that. And guess what, when you get to court, usually 2 - 3 years (that's right...years) later, she says she spent it on necessary items and you PROVE that isn't true or its gone forever.

Next, she'll buy anything she can with credit cards that are in both your names. Why not, even if the impossible happens she'd only have to pay for half and you get to pay the other half, A shopping dream come true....50% off anything.

Have a open line of credit, guess what, it is now maxed out and you get to pay it off. Sound amazing, it isn't, it is common practice.

What to do, read other articles here but first run to the phone and cancel every credit card, you can ask for a new one in only your name. Next run to the bank, freeze everything that is left, in my case it was $70.00

Think this is just too depressing, it will get much worse. Wait till the police arrive and throw you out and if you try to talk to your children you can go to jail. And then her dirt bag lawyer will just try to put off the hearing to further screw you. Where are you going to stay, what will you wear?

Read other Divorce Lies articles to find out more. There is a solution, not a great one but one that limits the loss.